rich dating age man victorian england - What to do when your ex husband starts dating
The fix: My advice is to block them both the second the status appears. So stop comparing and start blocking, because she might be looking at your profile and thinking the same thoughts, and neither of you deserves to feel inferior.
You have to be able to come to a point where you can at least tolerate him, and eventually work your way towards having a decent relationship with him.
Particularly if you see the relationship having a future, he will be the man your kids will be living with (if your wife has custody) or at the very least, interacting with, if you have joint custody.
It is easy to want to compare yourself to your ‘replacement’ and wonder what he sees in her, but the reality is that you’ll probably never know and you’re burning up energy better used elsewhere.
Some people start dating to force themselves to move on, some to bury the pain and yes, some are just ready to jump back in the saddle.
You will need to sort out your feelings and come to terms with his presence in her life and that of your kids.